"That the world's Lesbian community will at least quadruple
in the next few years (probably more!) if the utterly
ignorant, shameless, and clueless guys of the world that are online dating and meeting women don't get emergency help and guidance!
By learning what online dating researcher Passionate Ben has discovered from women online around the world..."


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Disclaimer: The email examples below (These are actual first emails to women online.) from clueless, tasteless, vulgar, unintelligent, and sex-obsessed guys from around the world. These emails are not for the faint of heart! They are to be viewed by adults only (age 18 & up). The bad grammar, spelling, and obscene profanities are all included. These are just a few of the hundreds of examples Passionate Ben has been emailed by women on what they DON'T want from guys online!

From: Surfer Boy
Date: May 23, 2006 7:39 PM

hey i went to ur site and i was wonderin if u could send me a couple of pics wit u and sum toys and maybe sum with u lickin ur tits and maybe sum cum!!!!PLZ write BAK

From: sean
Date: May 23, 2006 11:02 PM

hey baby. i just want to let you kno that i wacked off to your pics alot of times and if u became a porn star i would b ur biggest fan.. are u really that much of a freak though? you would have to get dick like literally rammed inside u everyday and shit? and u gotta take nut to the face.. u think u could do that?

From: Dan

Date: Oct 8, 2006 4:19 PM

u like nut?

From: Jutt
Date: Apr 14, 2006 12:20 AM

You would never burn me. I would eat you alive because at the end of the day your just a girl and I'm a man, you fucking need me. You sound like you've been put on to game but do you think you can honestly act like youre spineless. You try way to hard to stand out, I give you no props, and as far as you running Hollywood.. who the fuck are you? To me youre really just another girl on myspace craving the attention from fag guys, who like how you look in pictures that only look good because there taken at a certain angel. You would burn shit Id fucking eat you alive....cmon your starving for attention. p.s-nice motley crue shirt though :)

From: saman
Date: May 13, 2006 2:23 PM

How is every thing? Hope you are in good mood. I have some excuse that you do not know me but I send you a letter to introduce my self. I saw your profile on the site and decided to use this opportunity for beginning a nice kind of friendship and more . My name is Saman. I am 32 years old. I am single. I have never married. I have some small business . I look like handsome. I will tell more latter. You can ask every thing about me. and let me know some about you] Thank you Saman i like that u r Bi

From: Vodafone
Date: May 25, 2006 3:34 AM

those tits look like they need a good suckin n u a good fucking!

From: Josh
Date: Sep 23, 2006 2:22 AM

hows it going?? i couldnt help but notice you have beautiful breast!!would you send me a pic of them if i send you my cock????

Date: May 7, 2006 3:32 AM

 u a ugly bitch get off line there is no fuckin reason why the the world need to see all that stuff i cant even begin to tell u how nasty u make me fell inside and how grose u look i thought that by when whould have gotten rid of whale walkin on the stret all thought u fuckers only lived in oceans so please remove ur pic ASAP ps if i see u on the website again i wont be as nice

From: Grim
Date: May 26, 2006 10:27 AM

is there any chance you could just give me head sometime an i could eat you, we could be freinds with benafits.

Date: Sep 17, 2005 10:53 PM
Subject: UGGHHH


From: kevin
Date: May 9, 2006 7:42 PM

Subject: plz read this Body:

i will go down on u & make u happpy. but only long enough till u think its gonne get better, then ill cum back up & fuck u! Sincerely, gas prices

From: Joker
Date: May 26, 2006 11:50 PM 

let daddy slap his big dick on that tongue you nasty slut..

From: Super Man 420
Date: May 27, 2006 10:53 AM

 havent ate yet so im hungry can i eat you this morning

From: kendric
Date: Sep 16, 2005 7:24 PM
Subject: fgn 

 u r one fat asss ugly person.. wut up wit dose fat ass legs.. ewwwwwwww dat shit is nasty and so r u

From: Zak
Date: May 27, 2006 3:24 PM

god damn ur sexy, can i fuck u :)

From: Chris
Date: Oct 8, 2006 9:00 PM

I would like to rub that silk buttocks for hours and lick ya thighs all the way up! Do you want to sit on my face? Tell me

From: Trey
Date: May 26, 2006 3:16 PM

hey hey hottie;) very sexy ya im pretty horny. do u like phone sex or cyber sex. i have nude pics. if u want to see i can send them to your email

Beaners -R - US
Date: Sep 16, 2005 2:25 PM
Subject: about your life

you indeed have to be the fattest fuck thats a whore i have ever seen in my entire life, why would you wanna show off skin? i mean really the only things that would jack off to you are blue whales, hippos, and elephants( the largest land mammal) but then again you'd make them look small, do you ever think about killing yourself, you are a very easy target for suicide bombers from 5 miles into the sky.i bet you have gotten laid before, but then the people you scored with all died from too much wait you put on their bones cuz u had to be on top, my advice to you, pour gasoline all over your body, and burn yourself alive, have you ever checked under your roles? i bet theres missing children under there, or by this time they would already be part of your cottage cheese factory that u store under there. when you go to sea world, do they ever ask you how blue whales walk on the ground? okay well i'm fuckin done here, have a fucked up life , but before i hit set, i want to tell you, your not candy, you should be food for africa, with all that fat, you could end ethiopian's hunger!!!

From: Andy
Date: May 29, 2006 2:58 PM

I would say being 32 years old and having pictures like that on your page would mean your lookin for a fuckbuddy......

From: kenny
Date: May 29, 2006 8:37 AM

 hey i like ur profile do u use yahoo whats ur screename i have a cam and a mic do u have a cam or a mic

From: Rizz 235 Entertainment
Date: May 27, 2006 8:10 PM

hey gorgeous whats up!?!? lookin hot how big are the tits?

Date: Aug 25, 2005 7:53 PM
Subject: hey baby

 damn u got a nice ass its so bigggggggggggggggg fuck no i hate u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

From: richard
Date: May 29, 2006 7:34 PM

show me a nipple

From: Captain
Date: Aug 24, 2005 2:09 PM

Girl, why are you so ugly and fat, bitch you need to lose weight

From: Jeff
Date: May 31, 2006 6:53 AM

Want to see what I did while looking at your pics??

From: Lucifer
Date: Aug 24, 2005 1:30 PM

you fat fuck what the hell is your goddamn problem how long does it take you to bathe if you bathe at all,you nasty fuck do you ever leave your fucking house cuz if you dont please dont cuz i would laugh at you and call you fat hey when you moan does greenpeace come to the door you fucking balugga whale, if i was to do you i would need a two by four too lift up your fucking stomach and hunt for your goddamn cunt and seriously whats with the m &ms on your background do you ever stop thinking about food you depressed fuck if i was to ever fight you i would beat your fucking fat ass until you turned skinny you fat sadistic fucking wanna be slut cuz i kno noone wants too have a piece of that except my boy T-jay Guzman hes on myspace if you ever want to get a hold of him just search for him. Thank you for your time and fucking lose weight cuz jesus christ will never let you in heaven looking like that bitch.

- sheriff Jeff Wiley

From: jamie
Date: Jun 2, 2006 8:26 PM

well everybody has said the good ones so ill try to be creative here ok? nice legs when do they open?

From: kyle
Date: Sep 23, 2006 2:24 AM

id like to talk to you i think you look sexy and i love your fotos so plzzz txt me back and il give you a ride of your life

Captain Morgan
Date: Aug 21, 2005 1:48 PM
Subject: ....

your so disgustingly fat,, i just wanted to add you as my friend......and as a new friend...i would like u to know that u should be ashamed of yourself for ever getting so large.....its disgusting....quit stuffing your face with twinkies, and go for a walk......quit wasting americas food u glutonus swine...

From: Wi$e
Date: Jun 1, 2006 9:03 PM

beacse ur waitin 4 a young choclate guy like myslef 2 message u to tell u that ur really sexy and he wants 2 get 2 kno u and then u tlk2 him and u think hes cool...and blah blah hah im playing around wassup my names u doin?? u seem really coo and ur thick n sexy i love it..deff wanan get 2 kno u.. hit me back

Date: Aug 19, 2005 3:47 PM
Subject: omigosh

Is it just me or is it fat in here?

Date: May 31, 2006 2:36 PM
Subject: hello ms................

i just had to tell you how sexy you are and how i would love to see you naked on all fours one day..michael

From: Gary
Date: Jun 3, 2006 3:21 PM

mmmm you look naughty so do you like to fuck..

WOK n ROLL Nigger
Date: Aug 17, 2005 6:40 PM

Bitch, you so nasty. You jus pornstar wannabe! i real pornstar! You never be as good as me!

From: Rey
Date: Jun 3, 2006 1:14 PM

hey do you think you can put those tits in my face while i fuck the shit out of that pussy

From: Abby
Date: Jan 10, 2006 4:41 PM

abby i want you to listen to mary j the singer song , i can live without you babby, and abby that is how i feel abby. abby i want you to know that i will never do you wrong abby , and abby i want to love you abby abby and abby i dont want to sound crazy but abby i just have to tell you how i feel abby . i use to be with a balck ghirl abby but when i founded out that i like white girls and I just want a change for the new girl and i hope to have that with you , so take this as real and if you never give me a the time of day remember that somebody was down for you and down with no game and abby no disrespect but your beaty have stuck me in place and all i do is think about you abby, so if i dont talk to you have a good day and much love always jay. p.s abby i have to step out and go to the store so if we can talk i will be back on the computer at 3:00 so hit me back if we can talk . peace abby.

From: mike
Date: Jun 5, 2006 9:24 AM

i wana eat and fuk the shit out of u girl hit me up and lets do the dam thang

From: Tim
Date: Jun 1, 2006 9:10 PM

I won't attempt to disrespect you, you do a good enough job disrespecting yourself already! Leave a little more to the imagination. You're profile, as it is, is clearly perceived as HOOCHI! And you will attract all the bottom feeders. If you are not a HOE...modify you're profile to a more modest theme. This is good advice but based on your Potty Mouth I doubt you will recognize it as so. God bless you, He has a purpose for your life

From: collins
Date: Jun 5, 2006 3:45 PM

hi angel , i saw ur pix here wish was very sweet and lovely am collins am U.S.A am a banker. a 40years and lovely and careing guy and i will like to know u and have a date with u . baby i will be glad if i can have ur contact ur mail,and everything about u. baby i wanna have a date with and u and know more about u . and my mail is collins_kelly4u plz add me . love u baby but do u know wat? I don't fear insects or spiders. At great heights, I jump off, smiling. In the face of death I wink. But, when I look into your eyes, I'm in fear of how much I love you." plz send ur yahoo meil to so that i can add u thanks. from collins kelly

From: **SOmEonE**
Date: Jun 28, 2006 9:23 PM

hi fucken ugly dirty girl

From: Anthony
Date: Jun 5, 2006 4:16 PM

 I love your pictures!!! I wish I could lick that ass up and downbefore moving to other places to make you come hard down my throat....I tried adding you as a friend but it didn't work...try adding won't be disappointed Ciao Anthony

From: Dom
Date: May 26, 2006 7:01 AM

 i will show you bitch! i will show you how psyco i am fucking cunt!

From: frederick
Date: Oct 2, 2005 11:53 AM

I,m Frederick from Ghana,I saw your pic and I have fell in love with you.My dream is to marry a whitewoman and that is something special to me.And I will like as to be lovers.I love you with all my heart,so please give me the chance to show you my love.I love you.Frederick.I,m serious, I will like us to be lovers.Please reply me as soon as you can.Please give me the chance

From: Mac
Date: May 1, 2006 8:35 PM

im from chicago, just did a search you are so bangable

From: Pretty Ricky
Date: May 11, 2006 5:07 PM

where do u prefer em to cum at? do u swalow?

From: William
Date: Sep 25, 2006 11:21 AM

would you ever let a stranger jerk off in front of you until he cums?

From: my name :) l dont know heheh maybe dino lambertti
Date: Dec 30, 2005 10:57 AM

mybaby do u want me? l will come:) very soon :) l will fuck u :) hard sex

From: S
Date: Jun 21, 2006 12:09 PM
hey sexy gotany r rated pics

From: chindondo
Date: Jun 18, 2006 5:42 PM

if i ever go to massachusets can i hit that fat pussy hard?

From: Tony
Date: Jun 22, 2006 9:14 AM

that pic of u in the purple is so realistic it gives me wood!!!

From: recai
Date: Jun 24, 2006 4:55 PM

hey this guy wanna see ur ability in front of the cam:)Lol give me ur msn or yahoo_?

From: James
Date: Jun 24, 2006 7:40 AM

how big are your tits,,just curious.

From: Dan
Date: Jun 20, 2006 11:16 AM

wanna gimme a piece tonight

From: bobby
Date: Aug 3, 2006 4:15 PM

 i wish i was licking that wet pussy and ass do u like big black dick if so holla back

On a serious note: This very well could be your brother, son, cousin, friend, father,
or grandfather writing the above type of emails to women around the world! Please,
if you love or care about them at all, make sure they buy Passionate Ben's future book & cds.
This way Passionate Ben can beat some sense into their clueless dumb asses! ; )


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